ENDO Messages for April, 2004: Re: So Depressed!!

Re: So Depressed!!

From: Amanda (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sun Apr 18 14:36:18 2004

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At Sun, 18 Apr 2004, Julie wrote: >
>Amanda,
>
>I know exactly what you are talking about. I wish that I had some words
>of wisdom to share with you, but I feel the same way you do when people
>say things like that to me. Sometimes I feel like keeping papers of
>explaination on me at all times so that I can hand them out when people
>are so insensitive. My sister likes to tell me how wonderful it is to
>have a baby and then tell me that with all my "stuff" even if I could
>have a baby I wouldn't be able to deal with it physically. That hurts
>because she knows that growing up all I ever wanted was to have a family
>with lots of kids. She never even gave a hoot about kids, and now she
>has one and thinks that I shouldn't even try. Then she loves to tell me
>how she knows "tons" of people with endo and it doesn't affect them like
>it does me, as if implying that I am lying. I can't ever say anything
>back because it just hurts soooo bad. I get off the phone with her and
>cry to my husband. I am so thankful that I have him and he is so
>understanding. Anyways, I didn't mean to go off on that... I was just
>trying to say that I understand and I am so sorry that people are like
>that.
>
>God Bless you!!!

Julie, My sister is the same way! she has two kids (she doesn't even take care of them) and she is 9 yrs older than me and her latest plea to make me feel better was to tell me that her dr said she has a uterus that could have 3-4 more kids if she wanted to!! She also tells me that I will be able to have kids (which I am hopefull I will) but she just says it with no support or meaning! Sounds like you and I share the same feelings on this issue. I wish you all the best and thanks for the support!! Amanda >
>--
>Julie
>
>--
>"A cheerful heart is good medicine,"
> Proverbs 17:22
>

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