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Re: A visit to the Doctor...From: melissa (anonymous@obgyn.net)Tue Feb 10 12:33:28 2004
At Mon, 9 Feb 2004, Catherine wrote: > >Last year he wanted to perform a female castration on me, better known >as a Hysterectomy. Of course my answer was NO!!!!! Well,my husband >informed me that we're going to see the doctor in April because he's >tired of me getting buzzed on pain pills and sleeping all the time. Our >15th aniversary is next weekend and I didn't plan anything as on my days >off I like to lay around and sleep, my husband told me he has different >plans and they include, dinner, a movie, and sex. I told him not to >wake me up when he came in and to please have sex at his girlfriend's >house. He didn't find that funny in the least. I know he wants to run >around and have fun but I'm just physically drained and not able to do >all the stuff he wants to do. He won't listen to me, nor will he accept >other non-traditional treatments for me. I see a Therapist twice a >month about depression and dealing with my feelings on having >Endometriosis. My husband isn't very happy with the my going to Therapy >he thinks if I have a Hysterectomy my physical problems will be fixed >but emotionally I feel a operation of this nature will distroy the >person I am. I don't want to see that doctor or any Gynocologist ever >again. I just want to take my pain pills see my Therapist and sleep. >Catherine Oh honey I feel for you so much. I really do know what your going through with the deppression and just wanting to sleep on your time off. Some times I think my husbands such an A- hole for the things he does. As far as our intamacy goes there is none. I can't handle it anymore....I've been poked, proded and I might as well had a layout in playboy with all of these damn doctors I've been to. For them it's normal to strip down and start feeling around, I'm not used to this yet or will I ever be. I suppose I'm insecure with my body now....not in a physical way but I just feel it's fragile. Were going to sart marriage counseling next week ...hopefully I'll get through to him... I'm lucky because he is very well educated in this disease and he comes to all of my appointments...but I guess his MANHOOD gets the best of him some times. In a sense I can see were he's coming from ...we have been married 9 months now, I was diagnosed 7 months ago and since then ....no sex. I feel so bad but I'm so scared.
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