Re: can someone please talk to me
From: kristen (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Wed Nov 12 18:29:39 2003
thank you so much for your help. ive signed 5 or 6 release fors for my
records. and i still got nothing. either way i go in for a catscan
tomorrow at 2pm. i hope i dont have to take another semester off
school. i took this semster off and i failed the last 2 i went to
because of this shit. i cant blow anymore money like this. so i might
not go back at all. but i dont know yet. thanks for all your suport
you guys. get better all of you.
--
kristen helmer
At Wed, 12 Nov 2003, lauren wrote:
>
>Kristen,
>
>I am so sorry you've been through all of this. It seems like your
>doctors perhaps have been incompetant, but that is no reason to believe
>you cannot find a good one. Your last doc MUST give you your records!
>Just march over there and ask for them, or call and demand they be
>mailed to you - you may have to fax them a signed request form, but I
>can't see why else they'd not send them off directly. That is your
>property and you have a right to it. <a
>href="http://get-faster.com?go=insurance" onmouseover="window.status 'goto: insurance';return 1" onmouseout="window.status=''">Insurance</a>
>permitting, maybe you can get some Dr. recommendations from the women
>on this board.
>
>I agree with D.N. -- I am sure that they are being extra cautious
>because of your family history -- and this is a good sign that they are
>ruling out other causes with a test that does not seem too detrimental
>to your health (just a blood test, right? Stressful, but not a big deal
>physically like some other procedures). If it comes out positive, you
>will go from there, deciding what to do next based on the new info, but
>if it comes out negative, think of how much better you'll feel!
>
>I just wanted to let you know I fully understand about the whole
>explaining to sexual partners about your condition. I have a boyfriend
>now, but I am not the marrying type so this is something I have, and
>will have to deal with, just like you do now. I've been in pretty good
>shape lately, but there are periods when I can't have intercourse
>without pain and that is obviously not good. When it comes down to it
>though, if someone is so ignorant so as not to understand you have a
>(fully noncontagious) health problem after you explain it to them, and
>so close minded and uncreative as to not figure out a way for you guys
>to "have fun" together anyway, who the hell want to sleep with them
>anyway? ;)
>
>Good luck and keep us updated! You will get through this!
>
>At Tue, 11 Nov 2003, kristen wrote:
>>
>>well right now its hard for me because im in and around gynos right now
>>because since that guy who did my surgery and didnt do it right or didnt
>>do anything at all, no one will touch me until they have my medical file
>>from him. so ive been trying to get ultrasounds and blood work done
>>with my family dr and i dont think she cares about me much. she took me
>>off the only medication that has ever worked for me saying it was
>>giveing me heart burn when i wasnt even getting the heart burn until a
>>little after my surgery. so i was bitching about my dr to her and the
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>>and put me on nexium. she wants me to go get a tube down my throat to
>>see if i have an ulser. all this shit to prolong everything. all i can
>>say is im tired. i miss my life. i know all of you. but most of you
>>can keep around a boyfriend or you have husbands or something. i try to
>>explain to a guy why i cant have sex and they run away like its an STD.
>>i just want my life back.
>>
>>--
>>kristen helmer
>>
>>At Tue, 11 Nov 2003, D.N. wrote:
>>>
>>>Kristen,
>>>
>>>I think you will have to talk to your doctor and see what they say.
>>>Since it ovarian cancer runs in your family, it seems they will be extra
>>>cautious with you. If you don't feel comfortable with your doc, find
>>>another one.
>>>
>>>Best wishes,
>>>D.N.
>>>
>>>At Tue, 11 Nov 2003, kristen wrote:
>>>>
>>>>i know it can come back like that but i want toget it done because my
>>>>aunt died of overian and utarin cancer. and my cousin (my aunts
>>>>daughter) just had a cancerous tumar removed with her overy last month.
>>>>so its in my family. and it scares me. im only 20. i just want my
>>>>life back. like all of the women in this forum. i just cant seem to
>>>>find the answers.
>>>>
>>>>--
>>>>kristen helmer
>>>>
>>>>At Tue, 11 Nov 2003, D.N. wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>Hi Kristen,
>>>>>
>>>>>I am not sure what you want to know about the CA-125 test. I never had
>>>>>it done because my doc said that the test, in someone who has endo, can
>>>>>end up with false postives. So if you have this test and you end up
>>>>>with a positive result, don't jump to the conclusion that you have
>>>>>cancer. It may just be the endometriosis. I hope this info helps some.
>>>>>
>>>>>Best wishes,
>>>>>D.N.
>>>>>
>>>>>At Tue, 11 Nov 2003, kristen wrote:
>>>>>>
>>>>>>i need to know if anyone has had the CA-125 blood test done before. and
>>>>>>if so what did it find if anything. id really like some help even if
>>>>>>you havent had it. im just getting really scared.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>--
>>>>>>kristen helmer
>>>>>>
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