Re: Apology
From: Tammy Tammy (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon Oct 27 14:03:11 2003
thanks Jennifer, i did find the post quite hurtful as those who know me know i am loyal and honest and full of integrity, however i may have come on a bit hard! but that is just eagerness to help. thanks for your kind words they mean a great deal.
with love
tammy
Jennifer <anonymous@obgyn.net> wrote:
Just procrastinating and thought I would add my two cents. I don't take
offense at Tammy's postings. Also, I looked at Tammy's website -- I
didn't find Tammy's site aggressive. Perhaps a better place to float
her funding idea was on her site, or to inquire about working in
conjunction with EA directly on such an endeavor however I would
consider it a minor misstep at most. Personally I think the annom
poster is a bit drastic, Tammy's posting was simply an inquiry. Often
the way ideas come to realization is by asking questions and when they
do take form, they are not necessarily what was initially imagined. More
than that, I appreciate the fact that Tammy takes the time to respond to
posting with her experiences. I find that is one of the best ways we
can learn from each other. There are other sites out there that we can
all learn from, and the beauty of the internet is that you can puruse
information without parting with cash until you choose. I don't know
that this is where I should post this or if I should be sending it
directly to the EA web moderator, --- ideally you will tolerate my
ignorance.
Other, Tammy, I don't find an apology necessary, I believe you only
posted with positive intentions. Take care of yourself.
Jennifer
At Mon, 27 Oct 2003, Tammy wrote:
>
>I wanted to post an apology to all users of this forum. This was
>prompted by rather an upsetting and disturbing email sent from someone
>ANONYMOUSLY which obvioulsy means they dont want to be known unlike
>myself. What i post on this site is sent from the heart. I am an
>alternative therapist and i also have endo. If i have come across as
>brash or know it all i apologise this is not at all my intention. my
>intention is to pass on tools and advice using alternatives such as yoga
>and diet, exercise and nutrition to those of you who too have endo. this
>information is available on my website. it is free info so where
>someone got the notion i was soliciting business is beyond my
>understanding. i have at no time stipulated that i charge for this
>service. In my opinion there are many ways that you can help yourself
>with endo. you can either choose to learn about this from someone who
>is frightened, is in pain, does hurt and does have endo quite bad.
>Someone who at times has been very upset and did not know in which
>direction to turn but also from someone who opted to find out about Endo
>and to learn new ways alternative to those conventional medicines, that
>do work, but are not for me. i am sorry if i came across as in your
>face but in my opinion you can either learn from someone or not learn
>its our own journey with endo. I apologise again but get very
>frustrated when trying to help others, when most of the time i dont
>really have the energy and dont really have to do this either? i choose
>to do this as a christian. to help others in the same situation as i
>am. i dont take kindly to people who rant and rave and just have not
>seen my point of veiw. these are often the people that should stay
>quiet! i wanted to apologise although lord knows i dont know why i am
>just that the person concerned posted some damaging comments to which i
>have now responded. If there is a cure for endo, if there is a way to
>help each other then we need to learn from one another, not to put those
>who are trying to help those individuals. with love and blessings
>tammyx
--
Jennifer
Tammy Lorraine Majchrzak, http://www.alternatively-endo.com
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