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Re: Are all of these feelings NORMAL??
From: Shelly (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat Sep 13 21:45:37 2003
I have had all the same feelings. I tried so many things to help with
my mood. I am now taking Effexor and Trazadone. Effexor is not only
used to treat depression but also sometimes used for cronic pain.
At Fri, 12 Sep 2003, Michelle wrote:
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>Kim,
>Hay sweetie. You do sound down, I wonder if there is anything I or
>anyone else on here could do for you. I've already had a hyst so if
>you'd like to ask me questions about that I'd be glad to answer them.
>I've never been married had kids, or had sex yet so unfortunatley I cant
>help with those problems but be honest with your husband I'm sure he'd
>appreciate you if you told him what's been going on how you've been
>feeling. If he loves you and you love him, he will understand, I
>promise you that. When someone loves you truely, they will except
>everything about you, your pain, your mood swings, you just gotta be
>honest with him and let him know what you've been feeling inside.
>If you have any other questions I might be able to help with my email
>address is shelle20@yahoo.com Email anytime you need someone to chat
>with ok?
>Take care of yourself,
>Michelle I.
>
>P.S. Your feeling are normal by the way, completely normal. We
> all have feelings like that every once in a while. I know I
> do.
>
>At Fri, 12 Sep 2003, Kim wrote:
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>>Hello, here I am once again. You guys have been great. I have just
>>been feeling really down lately. I guess it probably is normal w/all of
>>the pain we deal w/on a daily basis. I feel bad complaining, b/c unlike
>>some of you on the board, I have had my children so at this point in my
>>life that is not a concern, couldn't imagine dealing with that on top of
>>this, I feel for all of you. I just feel so rotten that I am just not
>>myself and I don't like it. Usually I'm an upbeat person always smiling
>>and joking around and I miss that person, haven't seen her in a while.
>>I'm so sick and tired of being sick and tired! I'm sure you can all
>>relate. I have so much hope in my lap., and I probably should face
>>reality that it probably won't "cure" me, but atleast I hope to get some
>>answers and go from there. I guess one of the biggest things is that I
>>just married the love of my life after being together for 4 years (my
>>2nd marriage), we got Married in Aug., almost had to call off the
>>wedding b/c I landed myself in the hospital just a couple of days before
>>our wedding from the PAIN! Anyway, we couldn't even make love on our
>>wedding night, and our intimate life just is no where the same and I
>>feel guilty about that. Deep down I know I shouldn't, but I can't help
>>it. We looked so forward to being married, and I feel like I'm not
>>being a good enough wife. I try to keep up w/everything around the home
>>as I'm not working right now, hoping to get something soon when I'm up
>>to it. He's a wonderful man and a excellent step-father to my children!
>>I try not to complain all of the time, but I wonder if he doesn't
>>realize how hard this is for me right now b/c I think I try to "hide"
>>the pain if I can b/c I don't want to be a baby. Then I push myself too
>>far being superwoman and it just kills me! I will make love w/him (he
>>says no we don't have to I don't want you in pain) but I do b/c I feel
>>like I'm "neglecting" his needs, then I pay for it afterwards and try to
>>play it down. How can I really explain this all to him and help him to
>>understand what I'm going thru and make him realize that I'm not trying
>>to push him a way, I'm just not myself lately! It really stinks b/c the
>>last month or 2 has been the WORSE for me, and who wants to start their
>>marriage out like this, I guess maybe it'll bring us closer?!?! I always
>>try to look on the bright side, sometimes it's hard as I'm sure you can
>>relate! Any place I should have him look online to help him understand
>>what I'm going thru and that it has nothing to do w/him, I'm just not
>>myself but love him and need him more than ever! Thanks for your help,
>>and sorry this is so long!
>>Kim
>>
>>--
>>Kim Bills
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