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problems with having an orgasm, very upset, frustrated and scared please help!!!!!!!!

From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue Sep 9 21:23:04 2003


hi all, i have a question and was a little to embarressed to write my name to this post, although we are all ladies here i'm young and a little ashamed of this subject, anyways i'm unmarried with no children, had a hyst last year and had overies taken out a few months back, since that surgury i am unable to have an orgasm, this is very frustrating and it makes me feel horrible, i already feel like in my life i'm going to miss out on sex, cause alot of you women say on here how having sex really hurts, well i'm a virgin so i dont know about that yet, but i used to masterbate all the time just to learn my body and i felt it was a healthy part of living, well since the hyst everything was good and stayed the same, i could have one no problem it was a bit harder and took longer but it still worked, well i tried the other day first time in a few months, and i just couldnt, sat here for an hour trying and then i gave up, started crying, i'm so sorry to vent like this, but i just dont know what to do, i'm scared what if i can never have one again, what else in life do i have to live for, when i find the man of my dreams what if i cant get pleased anymore, what kind of relationship or marriage would that be, especailly with this painful sex situation i hear so much about. please someone maybe reassure me, or maybe there is a technique you could tell me about. i would try anything, i've been having alot of anxiety since this happend a few nights ago, maybe to alot of people its no big deal, but to a young adult its a very big deal, orgasm is a big deal, especially for a virgin, i want to have a good and healthy sex life when i find mr. right i just hope i can. i'm so scared.



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