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Re: Worried for my Fiance with EndometriosisFrom: JEN (anonymous@obgyn.net)Sat Aug 30 14:02:45 2003
At Sat, 30 Aug 2003, Matt wrote: > >Hello all, >After talking to my fiance last night who was nearly in tears about Endo >i thought i would do some research for her. Furthermore, after reading >all what some of you have had to say the pain that she's going through >and many of you are going to be more than i can imagine. > >We're both 20 and soon to settle down together, i was just wondering if >anyone knows if i could do anything to help her pain be decreased, it >kills me to see her in so much pain. She is currently a Vegetarian >taking Homeopathy. She's scared about infertility. > >I've read many sources on the net about Endo, some scares me, i wondered >if these is any light at the end of the tunnel. > >I just feel so useless, if anyone can tell me what i could do to help >her, i'd be more than greatful. > >I thank you all in advance and you all have my support. > >-- >Matt ~x~ > Hello, I really can't tell you much on how to help her get rid of the pain my husband asks me the same question all the time. The good news is that I do have 4 children and seem to not have any problem getting pregnant! So that is a good thing. My advice to you would be to be as supportive as you can because sometimes we get pretty emotional due to feeling like crap day after day and do start to push our husbands or boyfriends away why I have no idea. It is nice to see how much you care for her! It can be very frustrating to us because it doesn't seem to go away. I just had my first surgery 3 weeks ago and did feel better for a week and now I feel the same way but my doctor says to give it time. The thing that bothered me is that I thought that once I had surgery I would be back to normal and so far it doesn't seem to be that way but on the other hand my sister had it for a couple of years she seemed to be fine where someone else might have surgery for it and never have to deal with it again! So there is definitely hope! Like I said just be supportive like you have been already it seems like your doing a great job already!! Keep a postive outlook! I am not a really holy person but I will keep you in my prayers for I can't stand to see someone so young that wants to have children have to worry about this! Just remember I have it and I had a lot and have 4 children! I think sometime if they are really worried that you won't be able to concive they tell you to try sooner than later but don't quote me on that I am not sure for I am not a doctor! I wish you the best of luck and I understand what she is going through it isn't fun and at such a young age I really feel for her! Good Luck keep up the great job that you are doing! Support is the best medicine for me anyways!
-- Good Luck Jen
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