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Re: I'm so depressed amd I feel empty inside...

From: Anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue Jun 10 12:09:21 2003


At Mon, 9 Jun 2003, lil wrote: >
>At Sun, 8 Jun 2003, Catherine wrote:
>>
>>Doctor wants to do a complete hysterectomy on me. My husband asked for
>>alternatives explaining that we never had a baby and we want one. I was
>>suppost to call last week when I got my period to start taking Lupron
>>but I'm scared I've heard horror stories about that drug. My husband's
>>upset that I didn't call and I hid the fact that I was having my period
>>from him. He wants a baby so bad with me, and won't consider adopting,
>>at times I feel like I should divorce him so he can find a real woman
>>that can give him the family he wants. This morning he related that he
>>wanted to have intercourse with me but what's that point I have nothing
>>that I can offer him for his efforts. Why should I have to go through
>>all this when I see teenage girls running around the mall pregnant like
>>it's nothing hard to do. I feel like just giving up on me and the life
>>and family we want. Catherine
>

I agree with lil, you must explore all of your options before you go to do something as drastic as a hysto. Your husband just feels this way because he loves you so much - and you shouldn't ever think abou divorcing him for those reasons, it would hurt him so much, he loves you and that's why he's upset because he wants to create a child with you! I wouldn't give up hope keep trying and maybe it will happen!!! He wants to have sex, he's trying and you have to try too by being honest with him and telling him everything so that he can help you through it. If you keep him in ithe dark he will just be more upset. And to say that you have nothing to offer him is rediculous....he is with you for a reason and he wants to be there and uspport you, i promise. You just have to let him. Make sure to be as optimistic in this situation as you can, because that's the best hting you can do!!! I wish you tons of luck. Best wishes.

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Lauren

I'm not a doctor but have a background in medicine and biology. If you have any further questions, you can email me at standbyme1986@hotmail.com and I will try to answer asap.




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