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Re: I'm so depressed amd I feel empty inside...From: Alexandra (anonymous@obgyn.net)Mon Jun 9 12:44:36 2003
At Mon, 9 Jun 2003, lil wrote: > >At Sun, 8 Jun 2003, Catherine wrote: >> >>Doctor wants to do a complete hysterectomy on me. My husband asked for >>alternatives explaining that we never had a baby and we want one. I was >>suppost to call last week when I got my period to start taking Lupron >>but I'm scared I've heard horror stories about that drug. My husband's >>upset that I didn't call and I hid the fact that I was having my period >>from him. He wants a baby so bad with me, and won't consider adopting, >>at times I feel like I should divorce him so he can find a real woman >>that can give him the family he wants. This morning he related that he >>wanted to have intercourse with me but what's that point I have nothing >>that I can offer him for his efforts. Why should I have to go through >>all this when I see teenage girls running around the mall pregnant like >>it's nothing hard to do. I feel like just giving up on me and the life >>and family we want. Catherine > >CATHERINE, > >I must of missed something, why does your doc want to do a hysto? If >endo is the answer and pain, you need to go to an endo expert. Believe >me, I only wish I did before I had a hysto. I now have a great doctor >in Atlanta and I know that there are others. Don't despair. I just had >surgery with my doc and I am in alot of after pain, lots of nerve >irritation. They say it takes sometimes a long time before your back to >normal. I am hoping for the best. Anyways, I know that there are >alternatives, don't get a hysto until you have consulted a endo/adhesion >expert, I don't know your situation, but I know there are alternatives. >As for your husband, I am sure he didn't mean to be so cruel in saying >what he did, he probably is just frustrated. You both need to just sit >down and talk about it and find a good doc. I wish you the best!!!!! >Lil Hi Catherine, I'm very sorry to hear your story. I'm in the same situation but my partner doesn't care if I have or not children but I"m diyng for one. Saturday I was very depressed too becuase I was all by myself in my house and I looked around and there was nothing to do, no reason for me to work in life, the house was cold and I felt horrible empty. I understand what you mean. Your husband and you should go to counseling and find a solution to that. I think that having intercourse in more then have somebody pregnant. its cruel to tell you those things when you are going through so much. Don't be sad but have faith because its the only thing. I finished Lupron in January and I got my 2nd period now and I feel normal pain. yes you do have hotflashes but its worse it. After I had lupron i noticed that I may be fertile, don't lose your hope. You should go on Lupron. I know few people that got pregnant after having lupron. You should go to endocrinology-gynecology which are especialist for fertilization. wait for hysterec. don't do it yet. Good luck! Alexandra
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