ENDO Messages for April, 2003: Re: Feelin Down

Re: Feelin Down

From: Jillian (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sun Apr 27 14:26:34 2003

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I am 23 years old. young i guess. Its nice, so very uplifting to hear words of comfort. To know people are goin through the same things. I have a bit of a question. This endo makes me feel like i have to have children right now. I dont know how to explain this but i was adopted so i really dont want adoption. I am in one of the best relationships of my life. About three months ago, i began to hint to him that i had a limited time for childbearing. He said he wants to wait eight years before he has children. Id like to wait but i feel pressured. I got anxious and sad and scared and things are beginning to fall apart. I dont know what to do. Any advice on this? --- Martha <anonymous@obgyn.net> wrote: > At Sun, 27 Apr 2003, Kayla wrote:
> >
> >Jullian,
> >YOu deserve support just like all of us on this
> forum. Dealing w/ endo
> >is HARD. I totally understand...I am in college
> and my whole life is
> >adjusted to how I am feeling and what this damn
> endo is doing to me. You
> >aren't alone. You aren't losing
> everything....sometimes family and
> >friends just don't seem to understand what we
> have....sometimes I want
> >to have them be me just for one day so that they
> know how we feel. My
> >mom is really tough on me....I think from what she
> tells me, is that she
> >feels so helpless and sometimes she just gets
> really angry and takes it
> >out on me. It's not an excuse, but I know she's
> fustrated w/ me. Talk
> >to your family and say that there's nothing you can
> do to change this to
> >make it better. It's a day by day battle that
> sucks. I gave my family
> >my personal story that I wrote for a book being
> published in the future
> >and that seemed to help. Hang in there and we are
> always here for you!
> >
> >At Sun, 27 Apr 2003, Jillian wrote:
> >>
> >>I've been away from the forum for a few weeks. I
> >>havent been there for anyone. Im sorry for that. I
> >>dont know if i feel i deserve anyone's help at the
> >>moment because i havent been there.
> >>I need to vent a bit. Im so lost and confused
> right
> >>now. I feel like this horrible disease is ruining
> my
> >>LIFE. and i cant pick just one thing. It affects
> >>school, my relationship with my parents, my
> >>relationship with pregnant women, my work ability,
> >>romantic relationships. It makes me feel like im
> >>losing everything. Im soo very down on myself. Im
> the
> >>only person my age in my family that doesnt have
> >>children yet. Even my younger cousin has a baby
> and
> >>she didnt even want one. It not fair. I better
> with
> >>children thatn anyone i know, why did this have to
> >>happen to me? I understand that sometimes i get
> into
> >>these stints of dression about the same time i get
> >>nautious every month about a week before my
> period. I
> >>try doin the 'endo diet' and whatever works for
> me.
> >>Excercisin. I dont think its workin, It got worse
> this
> >>month. The nausea too.
> >>Thanks for your time.
> >>
> >
> >--
> >Kayla
> >**Just someone who cares, preparing for the medical
> field**
> >
>
> --
> Jillian, I am sorry you are feeling so down. Let me
> tell you, I got diagnosed with endiometriosis a
> couple of months ago, and even tough I already have
> children I am having a hard time with my husband.
> The gynecologist has suggested a hystorectomy since
> he already tried different things with me and
> nothing has worked so far. I am tired of feeling so
> horrible, before, during and after my period that I
> am willing
> to go thru the hystorectomy, but my husband says
> "NO". He thinks we will more than likely be having
> sexual problems after the operation. The thing is
> we are having problems now because of the way I feel
> with all this PMS symptoms.
> I hope things get better with you, I'm not sure how
> old you are, but you must be young ! I am 40 years
> old.
>

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