ENDO Messages for April, 2003: Re: Feelin Down

Re: Feelin Down

From: Martha (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sun Apr 27 12:20:39 2003

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At Sun, 27 Apr 2003, Kayla wrote: >
>Jullian,
>YOu deserve support just like all of us on this forum. Dealing w/ endo
>is HARD. I totally understand...I am in college and my whole life is
>adjusted to how I am feeling and what this damn endo is doing to me. You
>aren't alone. You aren't losing everything....sometimes family and
>friends just don't seem to understand what we have....sometimes I want
>to have them be me just for one day so that they know how we feel. My
>mom is really tough on me....I think from what she tells me, is that she
>feels so helpless and sometimes she just gets really angry and takes it
>out on me. It's not an excuse, but I know she's fustrated w/ me. Talk
>to your family and say that there's nothing you can do to change this to
>make it better. It's a day by day battle that sucks. I gave my family
>my personal story that I wrote for a book being published in the future
>and that seemed to help. Hang in there and we are always here for you!
>
>At Sun, 27 Apr 2003, Jillian wrote:
>>
>>I've been away from the forum for a few weeks. I
>>havent been there for anyone. Im sorry for that. I
>>dont know if i feel i deserve anyone's help at the
>>moment because i havent been there.
>>I need to vent a bit. Im so lost and confused right
>>now. I feel like this horrible disease is ruining my
>>LIFE. and i cant pick just one thing. It affects
>>school, my relationship with my parents, my
>>relationship with pregnant women, my work ability,
>>romantic relationships. It makes me feel like im
>>losing everything. Im soo very down on myself. Im the
>>only person my age in my family that doesnt have
>>children yet. Even my younger cousin has a baby and
>>she didnt even want one. It not fair. I better with
>>children thatn anyone i know, why did this have to
>>happen to me? I understand that sometimes i get into
>>these stints of dression about the same time i get
>>nautious every month about a week before my period. I
>>try doin the 'endo diet' and whatever works for me.
>>Excercisin. I dont think its workin, It got worse this
>>month. The nausea too.
>>Thanks for your time.
>>
>
>--
>Kayla
>**Just someone who cares, preparing for the medical field**
>

--
Jillian, I am sorry you are feeling so down.  Let me tell you, I got diagnosed with endiometriosis a couple of months ago, and even tough I already have children I am having a hard time with my husband.
The gynecologist has suggested a hystorectomy since he already tried different things with me and nothing has worked so far.  I am tired of feeling so horrible, before, during and after my period that I am willing
to go thru the hystorectomy, but my husband says "NO".  He thinks we will more than likely be having sexual problems after the operation.  The thing is we are having problems now because of the way I feel
with all this PMS symptoms.
I hope things get better with you, I'm not sure how old you are, but you must be young !  I am 40 years old.

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