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Re: All advice welcome

From: Alexandra (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon Mar 3 11:53:51 2003


At Sun, 2 Mar 2003, Husband wrote: >
>This is Mr.Swanson. My wife is Amy. I am asking you ladies for some
>help. My wife had her Luna and Lap on the 21st of February. Since
>then, she is still in a good deal of pain. She has an appt with her
>doctor on Tuesday. She is on Vicodin and Ibuprofen. I am asking for
>advice about her emotional state. I think that she has slipped into a
>deep depression. Is this due to the surgery or pain medication or the
>pain itself or all of the above or is this normal for anyone that
>suffers from endometriosis? She cries a lot and I try to console her.
>She is not mean or belligerent- but she does cry through out the day and
>is very withdrawn. I want to be there for her- but I do not know how
>anymore. She does not even participate in this forum anymore. She does
>not do a lot of the things that she once enjoyed. If any of you have
>any suggestions I would greatly appreciate it. I want to help her. I
>want to pull her out of this depression. She is on anti-depressants and
>she is kind. I know her well though. And I know that she is sad. Any
>ideas? Sorry if I am bothering any of you. I am a guy and I cannot
>really relate to her suffering. But I do want to try my best to do my
>part, for her sake and that of our children. Thank you for your time. I
>am clueless...

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Hi,
I think you should bring her to a psicology. I think the medication is affecting her somehow. If she doesn't have kids, she may think that she can't and that will make her more drepress. She's lucky that she has a man like you supporting her in this situation. I dno't have that. We should look of what we have and other can't have. That makes us feel good. I think  she should go to theraphy. I" sure she will be better. Its very difficult to have a desease like Endo but we have to learn who to leave with this. She should try to see a psicology trust me that its incredible the results.

Good luck Alexandra Despinos@lehman.com




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