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Re: anonymous

From: anonymous@obgyn.net
Tue Jun 18 15:16:34 2002


In a message dated 6/18/2002 3:02:08 PM Central Daylight Time, anonymous@medispecialty.com writes:

> Listen I thought this was a place where we could discuss what we are
> going through without judgement. I am new to this and may have miss
> read advice, but when you respond to someones question you may want to
> have a little more sympathy in your answer.
>

Agreed, as long as they also have some sympathy in their answers and comments. If there isn't any in those comments, then I get angry, and THEN I have no sympathy for them. Especially the one's who are judgemental, and act like they know what EVERYONE in here is going through. I have a bad time, but I KNOW I don't have it the worst. It's not possible that I have it the worst. There is always someone worse off than yourself. I do not feel sorry for myself, therefore no self-pity. I am doing my best to get better, so when someone calls me a lier or crazy it really ticks me off. If they don't like my answers when they tick me off, then too bad. Don't tick me off. AND don't try to judge everyone in here by YOUR standards. Not everyone in here feels the same way, and I'm praying for EVERYONE in here to get well, not just the hard timers, or the one's who have it easy, but EVERYONE!!!! The judgement only comes when someone STARTS judgeing all of us, and acting like we are crazy or faking it, or lazy. I WILL NOT BE LABLED THAT WAY!!!!! I've worked longer than some of you have been alive! I started working when I was 7 years old, and got legal jobs at the age of 16, that doesn't count the illegal jobs I got at 13, in business's, by lying about my age. I don't ask for sympathy, nor do I want it. I want what is right. Good health care, and non-judgemental people who are going through the same thing. I want to inform the public about this problem, because until I got it, I had never even heard of it. And that's what keeps us from being diagnosed. That's what makes a LOT of our lives miserable! And from what I can tell, I've had it a LOOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNNGGGGGGG Time!!!!!!! But I'm NOT an exception, I'm more like the average! And that should NEVER be right! That's why I tell people to get the info out, and I get mad when people come in here and "Claim" to have severe cases, and call us all whiners, and tell us to get a life, THEN don't even have the courage to leave their names! Cowards! Hiding behind a mask! Show yourself, or shut up! But first of all GROW UP!!!! There are people here with MAJOR health problems, and we are all here for help, not to be told we are stupid, lazy, underachievers! That's the one's I get angry at. And when you are in pain all the time, you get angry MUCH easier. AND if someone made me angry enough, I probably wouldn't have a problem hunting them down and shooting them in the leg! How's THAT for pain? If you don't want to be judged by us, don't judge US!

Diane!




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