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Re: my husbandFrom: elizabeth (anonymous@obgyn.net)Wed May 29 22:39:04 2002
Hi hon, I do understand where your coming from and just want to say that some men find it very hard to share their feelings about something so personal to anyone other than their wife. I know this because my hubby is the same way. It has been over 6 months since hubby and I have had actual intercourse. But remember there are ways of satisfying his sexual urges with out actual penetration. Don't give up on your hubby because I think he really loves you and just dose not want you in any pain at all. I know it's hard to deal with endo because I have been battling with it for more than 14 years. Just hang in there and once you find the treatment that is right for you, then things will truly get better. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.... Liz
>----- Original Message ----- My husband bless his heart is trying so hard to be there for me even when im swinging moods i feel so bad for him sometimes, i blew up on him the other night when he said to me i understand how you feel. I was like oh really you do your legs hurt your fist come up ready to fight if someone comes near your breast or belly. Because i sure dont see how you feel the knife fight going on in my abdomen or the i cant walk syndrome because the pressure feels like everything is about to fall out of my stomach. He was like okay i felt so bad that it hurt my feeling cuz i dont want him to understand i want him to just love me and say i wish you would feel better. I am always chatting away about you all and what other people are going through is similar to me. He is glad i found this website. the other night i had a mission to make it through sex and i think i almost threw up it was hurting and making just sick. he got mad cause i was trying to have sex while i was hurting He loves me so much he doesnt like it when i do that but i told him i dont want to neglect him and him leave me for some girl who loves to give out to married men. He freaked out but it scares me because i love him so much and i want to have sex but it just kills me, and i feel so bad for him. Does anyone understand where im coming from? i m rambling incoherently about this. I know this man loves me more than anything it makes me sad for him. But he wont look into these support groups and i dont know what to say sometimes i keep telling him there are some cool people (men) who are experiencing this your not alone but he wont listen. well i will quit.
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