Re: ally sad..... Thank you
From: Zoe (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue May 21 16:35:53 2002
I just wanted to say thank you to everyone for the kind thoughts. Just
knowing that there are people out there who understand is a great
comfort to me.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Zoe.
At Mon, 20 May 2002, nikki wrote:
>
>I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I don't know you but my heart goes
>out to you. Just because you didn't know that you were pregnant, that
>doesn't mean you shouldn't feel bad-- especially after two other losses.
>Know that you have a right to feel bad about this. Grieve for as long
>as you need to. I hope things work out for you. I will pray for you.
>
>At Mon, 20 May 2002, Zoe wrote:
>>
>>Been told today that I've just had another miscarriage.
>>
>>I was told that I couldn't get pregnant naturally as I wasn't ovulating
>>and I was in a false menopause cos of the Zoladex injections I was
>>having. After 5 months of pain free bliss, I started having really bad
>>pains on Saturday and have been bleeding for 3 days now. Went to the
>>doctor today and after examining me he told me I was having a
>>miscarriage. Apparantly me and my husband should have been using some
>>sort of contraception even though I was on the Zoladex.
>>
>>I just don't know what to think anymore. I feel as though someones
>>punched me in the stomach and don't know how much more I can take.
>>
>>My family and friends are all angry at the doctors for not telling me
>>that this could happen. I just want someone to give me a hug and tell
>>me that everything will be alright, but everyone seems to think that
>>because I didn't know I was pregnant that I shouldn't be too upset. They
>>keep telling me that I'll have a baby some day. I just want to know why
>>me! This is the third baby I've lost now and I can't seem to stop
>>crying.
>>
>>I'm sorry this post is so depressing, but I really needed someone to
>>talk to who might understand how much I'm hurting.
>>
>>Thanks for listening.
>>
>>Zoe.
>
>--
>nikki kemp
>