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Re: ally sad. Didn't know where else to go.
From: nikki (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon May 20 22:42:12 2002
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I don't know you but my heart goes
out to you. Just because you didn't know that you were pregnant, that
doesn't mean you shouldn't feel bad-- especially after two other losses.
Know that you have a right to feel bad about this. Grieve for as long
as you need to. I hope things work out for you. I will pray for you.
At Mon, 20 May 2002, Zoe wrote:
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>Been told today that I've just had another miscarriage.
>
>I was told that I couldn't get pregnant naturally as I wasn't ovulating
>and I was in a false menopause cos of the Zoladex injections I was
>having. After 5 months of pain free bliss, I started having really bad
>pains on Saturday and have been bleeding for 3 days now. Went to the
>doctor today and after examining me he told me I was having a
>miscarriage. Apparantly me and my husband should have been using some
>sort of contraception even though I was on the Zoladex.
>
>I just don't know what to think anymore. I feel as though someones
>punched me in the stomach and don't know how much more I can take.
>
>My family and friends are all angry at the doctors for not telling me
>that this could happen. I just want someone to give me a hug and tell
>me that everything will be alright, but everyone seems to think that
>because I didn't know I was pregnant that I shouldn't be too upset. They
>keep telling me that I'll have a baby some day. I just want to know why
>me! This is the third baby I've lost now and I can't seem to stop
>crying.
>
>I'm sorry this post is so depressing, but I really needed someone to
>talk to who might understand how much I'm hurting.
>
>Thanks for listening.
>
>Zoe.
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nikki kemp
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