ENDO Messages for April, 2002: Re: other e-mail address

Re: other e-mail address

From: Veronica (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sun Apr 14 23:14:53 2002

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Ana,

I tried to send this to you yesterday, but my email is really messing up. So I'll try to get it figured out, until then I post my original e-mail to you. Just read your e-mail. I’m glad that you had such a good day. Mine was o k, I had sharp pain earlier in the day but it’s under control now. I’ll try this new e-mail address you sent. Hopefully it will work. From what you said about your future mother-in-law, it sounds like she is definitely having a hard time letting him go. I think that she needs to meet someone also, if you’re in luck maybe she will meet someone at the wedding. Wow you have 2 brothers and 1 sister! A little bit like me, but a different order. It’s really great that you’re going to study obstetrics and gynecology with a focus on high risk pregnancies. Both of my daughters were high risk because I had Adenomyosis (which is endo in the uterus) and regular endo. The good thing is I pulled through to full term with each of them. Your dress sounds really pretty also. It sounds like your having a romantic Victorian style wedding. I’m sure it will be really beautiful. I’m glad to see you have help from you’re made of honor; it sounds like she really likes the Renaissance. Since I live Indiana there really isn’t any fairs to attend. I just got into this renaissance idea a couple of moths ago. I just really like their style. I found out today that my mother-in-law is going to provide the cake for our reception which is really nice. All I could do was thank her. I feel like my husbands’ family is more involved than my own. I keep thinking maybe they’ll come around. I liked what your grandma said. That was funny. When Stephen and I were married at the Justice I only wore a nice suit because we couldn’t afford a wedding plus this is my second marriage. So my mom said there was no need to wear a wedding dress. However my first wedding was in a church I didn’t wear a wedding dress either. Let me explain: I was married the first time at age 17 to my high school sweetheart that I had dated for nearly two years. To make this long story short. I got pregnant at seventeen, both families agreed we should marry because “What would people think?” so we did, then on our honeymoon I was rushed to the ER only to find I was having a miscarriage at three months, Which was really the most difficult thing I ever experienced both physically and emotionally. Six months later Jay walked out on me, filed to divorce and sued me for everything right I had a nervous breakdown and ended up in the stress center. Needless to say when I got out of the stress center I countered-sued him and won the case. I later find he had a girlfriend on the side the whole time. That broke my heart because I truly loved him. A couple of years later I met the love of my life, Stephan. And we’ve been together ever since. Sounds like a soap opera, huh? Try not to be too nervous about your wedding; it will be the best day of your life! I think that I’m just excited about our renewal because finally I can do it the way I want. To answer your question of my age, I’m 29 years old but I hit the BIG 30 In November. I’m not looking forward to it. How old are you, if you don’t mind me asking. Your honeymoon sounds really nice, we’ve never been there. I think we are just going to do a family vacation to St. Louise instead of the honeymoon. I would really like to spend some time with Stephen and the girls because there’s a possibility I may have surgery in late summer. On to the personal question, I know exactly how you feel. I have those times a lot. I think the reason I get emotionally upset is because I feel that when I’m in pain It affects my mood and my ability to perform, then I feel like I’m less of a woman because of it. And my Stephen, it seems like always gets the short end of the stick. He has always been very understanding and gentle. But sometimes it just really hurts. And sometimes I do cry for no reason, it’s just like I have all these feelings bottled up and when I least expect it I explode. Just remember you’re not alone. Do you know what stage of endo you have? I have stage IV which is considered the worst. When I was diagnosed I think it was stage III but that was 10 years ago. I just wish that there was a cure. I’ve already been told that it has returned this time to my vaginal canal, pelvic floor and possibly bowels; I’m just hoping it hasn’t spread to bladder or other organs. I’m starting to think it has spread to my bladder because I do have bladder problem such frequency and pain but it’s not a UTI. Right now I feel that the surgery would be my best bet because I’ve tried about everything else. I can’t wait for this Depo to get out of my system. The side effects are really bad. What other therapies have you tried? I did the lupron for 6 months three years ago and it didn’t work, a couple of months later I had surgery. That was the last surgery, the one before that was my hysterectomy. I am so thankful I was able to have two beautiful daughters. I’ve read that some woman have a hard time conceiving with endo. I guess it just depends on each woman. If you’re wondering why I always write late it is because I’m a night owl. But I do need to go to bed soon, we’re going out of town tomorrow to in-laws to spend the day visiting and fishing. Oh, by the way I love to go fishing. I think that stems from my dad. Plus my husband is advent fisherman and my girls love it to. I think it would be great just get of town and relax a little. Plus I’m definitely taking my pain medicine just in case. I don’t want the endo to ruin tomorrow. Better go!

Write soon!

-- Veronica :)

-----Original Message----- From: Ana Gaiser [mailto:anonymous@obgyn.net Sent: Friday, April 12, 2002 3:58 PM To: anonymous@obgyn.net Subject: other e-mail address

Veronica,

How are you feeling today? Today was an awfully good day for me, hope it was for you too. I figured I would give you my other address to see if that works: zaneandana428@msn.com .

My fiance is an only child, his mother isn't married and for 21 years her life has revolved around him b/c she has noone else. My personal thought is she needs to find someone else to occupy her time. But hey, I am not a parent yet. I am the oldest child. I have a 17 yo bro, 8yo sister, 5 yo bro. I am also the first one in my family going to college. My dad is thinking about taking classes with me when I move down to Orlando. LOL. I am not so sure how I feel about that. I am studying obstetrics and gynecology. Humm, I wonder what got me interested in that? I want to focus on high risk pregnancies.

Your dress sounds pretty. My maid of honor is really involved in renaissance fairs and things like that. Do you do that? My dress is a sleeveless ivory ball gown with pink flowers. His mom had a fit b/c I am not wearing pure white, but I think ivory is close enough. My grandma said I shouldn't wear white or a veil b/c my fiance and I live together.

My wedding is going to be in a garden by a Victorian home, actually there is a website about it if you want to see, it's http://www.magnoliaacres.com. Two weeks till the wedding. I am getting nervous.

If you don't mind me asking; how old are you?

Are you going to take a "honeymoon" after the vow renewal. Zane and I unfortunately cannot afford one. I work in the travel industry though, so I am trying to find some really good deals. Right now we are looking at ClubMed.

Is it okay if I ask you a personal question? Whenever my fiance and I have sex I get really emotionally upset. Sometimes it is physically hurting (I ended up in the er one night after having sex b/c I could not walk), sometimes it is just I get upset for whatever reason and start crying and stuff. Does this ever happen to you? The physical hurting didn't start happening until the endo went into my bladder.

Well I am going to go cook dinner.

Have a great day.

~ANA

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