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Re: PregnancyFrom: Ana (anonymous@obgyn.net)Thu Apr 11 02:30:30 2002
My fiance has been talking to the future mother in law for two years now, at one point they were barely on speaking terms. I think I am going to ask her to come to a dr's with me so my doctor can explain things to her although my mom feels as though it is none of her business. My mom said she is going to call her and say "I am so happy that you raised such an understanding loving son who can look beyond Ana's illness and still love her . . . it is too bad you can't be this way." However, this is not how I want to start a new family. I think my fiance is sick of explaining things to her. She also thinks that I am going to "give this to him and kill him". Sorry I am griping I just frustrated. Does anyone know of any online support groups my mom and fiance can join for family members of people who suffer from endo??? I know it is hard on them both and considering how much help just the last few days have been . . . it would be great if they had someone they could talk to about their fears and what-not. THANKS *HUGS* ~ANA
>----- Original Message -----
At Tue, 9 Apr 2002, Ana wrote:
>Hi, I can't speak to the pregnancy issue, that is certainly up to you and your fiance, but I am glad to hear you are already considering adoption. On the mother-in-law issue, however, I think the best thing to do is ask your fiance to have a very serious talk with her about these issues. She is his mother and he needs to take some responsibility for dealing with her behavior. If he is not willing to do this (ie, defend you), you need to consider how supportive he will be in the future. Take care and good luck! BJ
>I am getting married in three weeks and I am 19 years old (almost 20). nyways, I have been told by numerous dr's that in order to have kids I n ed to get p-g young. What exactly is young? Is it like 21 or 25? I do 't know. My fiance and I want three kids, at least one conceived on our own. He will be entering the police force soon and I am planning on att nding grad school and then med school, so at this point I am not sure wh n to throw in having a baby. Coming from a huge family, I dream of havi g a huge family of my own. One of the worst aspects of endo for me is t e complexity of getting pregnant. I have a soon-to-be mother in law bre thing down my throay saying things like I am selfish in marrying her son when I cannot give him kids. She says I use my illness as an excuse to e cranky and stuff. I am in pain 75% of the time, I think i have a righ to be cranky. She has made no effort in learning anything about the di ease and I am sick of her comments. An!
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