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Re: I'm Feeling Very Depressed
From: Angie (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Sat Jul 21 09:08:45 2001
At Fri, 20 Jul 2001, Michelle wrote:
>Michelle,
I'm sorry that you are having the problems that you are with your pain
and hubby. I know it is hard to deal with everything that you are, but
I am sure that your hubby is having a hard time dealing with it, as MEN
can't comprehend what WE women have to go through. Their minds just
aren't developed yet, just give him some time and you try to hang in
there. Doesn't matter if you have online friends or your own neighbors,
as long as you have someone who understands you. We will always be here
for you, no matter what. Just hang in there and let God take care of
the rest. HUGS & PRAYERS
Angie
>Hello Dear Friends,
>I had to take the time & share how I'm feeling. I'm not sure how many
>of you have experienced this after having a Lap & D&C or any surgery?
>However, I'm really depressed. I did contact a therapist, who I thought
>could help me, but due to the type of insurance I have which is Medi-cal
>& Medicare due to me being
>on Social Security she didn't take my insurance. What a dissapointment,
>because
>I really liked her & her credintals are outstanding. Now I'm on the
>search for another therapist. It's really difficult finding a therapist
>in my local area,
>which is in Harbor City, Ca. The other closest areas are Torrance, Long
>Beach,
>and other LA Areas. But I did look online today & e-mailed some
>therapists, so
>I hope to get some positive replies back. I'm down because it seems
>that one week my husband is supportive & understands what I'm going
>through & the following weeks, he's a totally changed man. It's so
>frustrating because I try to discuss many things with him about how it
>isn't easy having to deal with a Mental Illness & also Physical Ilness.
>He knew all of this before the marriage,
>but it seems to me that most men, NOT all just don't get what US women
>go though
>and what our PAIN is like, no matter if it's Mental or Physical. And
>now I really don't need this crap from him at all. Here's a lttle taste
>of what occured yesterday. I wanted to share with my husband the digest
>from the group.
>He had the nerve to tell me that "he didn't want to read about other
>womens/peoples problems", and I need to find friends, real friends
>instead of
>being online talking to people I can't see. That really HURT me sooooo
>BAD..
>I just don't understand what's going on with him, he needs COUNSELING
>.....
>I told him last nigth if he doesn't want to be married any longer, we
>need to part our ways. I love my husband dearly, but he's not being
>sensitive to my needs & NOT communicating with me like a MAN should with
>his spouse. I just wanted to share this with the group, because I truly
>"appreciate" all the prayers & support, emails, & cards everyone has
>sent me during my recovery.
>Take Care Everyone & Enjoy Your Weekend!
>Hugs,
>Michelle Bradley-Kennedy
>
>--
>SweetOceanBlue77@aol.com
>
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