Re: To my Endo Angels ^j^ (((Chris)))
From: Andrea (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Dec 29 22:14:57 2000
can anyone tell me how to change my email address to get my mail from this
group?
Thanks,
Andrea
andrea@triver.com
>----- Original Message -----
From: Marlene <anonymous@obgyn.net>
To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <anonymous@obgyn.net>
Sent: Thursday, December 21, 2000 9:57 AM
Subject: Re: To my Endo Angels ^j^ (((Chris)))
> Hi Chris:
>
> Big warm hugsss to you!!!!
>
> Sorry to hear your not feeling well after your surgery. With you
> mentioning your 2 weeks post op...that is still pretty recent you need
> to give yourself more time. It is difficult recovering from surgery.
>
> When I had my partial hysterectomy I bled as well for about 10 days
> which I found really irritating. It was also hard for me to look at my
> incision because I had never had stitches before. In fact it scared me
> ...but in time it healed very well and all the redness disappeared.
> Over time it became a thin white line at the top of my vagina.
>
> Also I found it hard to do much in the first 3 weeks afterwards. My
> partial was done around this same time of year only 2 years ago and I
> found I was very teary and emotional too. For me, I don't know if it
> was the time of year (cause I get emotional at Christmas)....or just
> that I felt depressed having gone through my surgery. My Doctor had
> warned me that after a surgery I may experience a depression, but that
> it would be a short one.
>
> With the people around you and your boss putting pressure and guilt on
> you for being off of work....know that unless they have experienced what
> you've gone through they truley won't understand how your feeling and
> your emotions.
>
> Take the time you need to heal, eat well and try not to over do
> things....you will feel good again *smiles*...
>
> If you want to email me privately anytime....please do!!!
>
> Warm hugsss
> Marlene
>
> At Wed, 20 Dec 2000, Chris wrote:
> >
> >I apologize for not being on the forum lately, none the less answering
> >any personal emails. I had surgery 2 weeks ago, i had a partial hyst
> >and i am still recovering. For some reason, i still bleed, have an ache
> >like menstrual, and i am just so stressed out. my surgery was
> >successful, they just removed the uterus, ovaries were clear. yeah!
> >anyway, i seem to be very emotional lately, and really have no desire to
> >talk about things, it's possible maybe i have too many people telling me
> >there problems, and wow...family just don't care. They tell me their
> >problems like i have nothing better to do than listen to them, i tell
> >them i don't want to be invovled, but in a day, they are right back at
> >it. I'm sorry i'm venting, and it's all bottled up inside of me. my
> >boss is giving me guilt for being out event though i found her a
> >replacement. i'm so tired worn out and when i'm on my feet i feel like
> >my whole insides weigh 100 pounds. I have not read any letters on the
> >forum the first week in december. I sat here today and read through
> >them all balling like a baby. I believe i'm writing just for some
> >advice, support, experiences, or well just to get it all off my chest.
> >I hope that everyone has their chin high in the air today and a smile on
> >their face:0) Thank you in advance for any type of response. An endo
> >sister is despair.
> >Chris
>