Re: Sex Chat
From: Amy (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Dec 1 12:39:52 2000
TANYA I APOLIGIZE FOR THE CAPS, MY KEYBOARD IS ACTING UP FOR 2 DAYS AND I
HAVE NO CHOICE TILL A REPLACEMENT COMES IN. AND I NEVER SAID THAT SEX WAS
COMPLETELY PAIN FREE FOR ME I JUST GAVE SUGGESTIONS ON WHAT MAY HELP.IF
YOU'D READ MY EMAILS YOU'D SEE THAT.
MY MESSAGE WAS CLEAR.THANKS,AMY
-----Original Message-----
From: Tanya Strom [mailto:anonymous@obgyn.net
Sent: Friday, December 01, 2000 11:18 AM
To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO
Subject: Re: Sex Chat
Amy,
There is no need to yell. Writing is capitals means that you are yelling,
not to mention the fact it is more difficult to read.
As for pain with sex, many women have terrible pain while having sex.
Obviously you are not one of those women. I depends on where the endo and
adhesions are as well as how severe the endo has become. don't assume, just
because you can have painless sex that everyone can. I thank you for your
suggestions for how to improve the experience. They may be very useful for
some women. For others it won't be the answer. There are so many things
not known about this disease. Endo presents itself differently in every
women and we need to remember that when we make sweeping remarks.
I hope you understand that I mean no disrespect to you at all. I just
wanted to clarify some of the points in your message.
Tanya
>----- Original Message -----
From: Amy <anonymous@obgyn.net>
To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <anonymous@obgyn.net>
Sent: Friday, December 01, 2000 10:00 AM
Subject: Re: Sex Chat
> WELL IN REGUADS TO SEX, YES ITS PAINFUL BUT I DISAGREE WITH EMILY. I'VE
BEEN
> MARRIED 5 YEARS AND HAVE A 2 YR OLD BOY. YOU DONT HAVE TO SAY GOODBYE TO
> SEX. MY SEX LIFE IS GREAT.MY HUSBAND MAKES SURE HE ISNT HURTING ME AND IF
HE
> DOES THERES PLENTY OF OTHER WAYS THAT HE PLEASES ME.IF YOU HAVE A GOOD
> UNDERSTANDING MAN THERE SHOULDNT BE A PROBLEM.AND THERE ARE A TON OF
> DIFFERENT POSITIONS, DIFFERENT LUBRICATES,AND THERE IS ALWAYS ORAL
PLEASURE.
> HOWEVER YOU DECIDE , SEX CAN BE GOOD AGAIN.KEEP IN MIND I WAS DIAGNOSED
WITH
> ENDO WHEN I WAS 18 AND I'VE HAD 3 LAPROTOMYS AND REMOVAL OF MY LEFT OVARY
> AND LEFT TUBE.SO I DO UNDERSTAND THE PAIN BUT I WILL NEVER LET THIS
DISEASE
> RUIN MY SEX LIFE.
> AMY HUSTEAD
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Emily M Hecht [mailto:Emily4@mindspring.com]
> Sent: Friday, December 01, 2000 7:48 AM
> To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO
> Subject: Re: Sex Chat
>
> Sally,
>
> I've only been with the forum for 2 months but I think after reading
posts,
> that positions, and afterward feelings might be a couple of topics to
> discuss. Sex is not something that we can totally say goodbye to.
> Especially those of us with husbands, or boyfriends. I would say that 8
out
> of 10 times I am doing it for my hubby, not myself (which is sad, and
would
> probably be different if I didn't hurt) I think it is a great idea to
have
> a chat about this issue, because it is such a big one with people. As for
> the date and time evening (central time) or Sundays would be good for me,
My
> hubby works, and w/2 little ones it is hard to stay online when I get to
get
> on. Just my opinions here. Lots of love.
>
> Pain Free Wishes,
>
> Emily
>> ----- Original Message -----
> From: NSMITCH <nsmitch@usa.com>
> To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@mail.medispecialty.com>
> Sent: Thursday, November 30, 2000 8:20 PM
> Subject: Re: Sex Chat
>
> > Seems we have some takers, so when would everyone like to meet and what
> are
> > the hot topics that people want to cover? I'm hoping this can be a
candid
> > and confidential talk so that everyone can feel at ease to say and feel
> > whatever they are going through..a time of real sharing about a very
> > difficult subject to speak of at any time.
> > Thanks for the feedback, Sally
>> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: "Emily" <Emily4@mindspring.com>
> > To: "Multiple recipients of list ENDO" <endo@forum.obgyn.net>
> > Sent: Thursday, November 30, 2000 5:48 PM
> > Subject: Re: Sex Chat
> >
> > I'd be glad to join the chat.
>> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: NSMITCH <nsmitch@usa.com>
> > To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@mail.medispecialty.com>
> > Sent: Thursday, November 30, 2000 4:18 PM
> > Subject: Sex Chat
> >
> > > Any takers on my idea of a chat about the taboo subject of painful
> > intimacy,
> > > et al? It was in the "Dryness to ALL" post.....Just wondering....
> > > Sally
> > >
> >
>
> >
>
> >
>
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