Re: Sex Chat
From: Amy (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Dec 1 12:36:57 2000
I GOT MY PERIOD WHEN I WAS 11 YRS OLD. I KNEW FROM THE START THAT YOU WERENT
SUPPOSED TO BE IN THAT MUCH PAIN. EVERY MONTH I WAS IN AND OUT OF EMERGENCY
ROOMS.I LIVED ON VICODIN AND ULTRAMS. I WAS A BASKET CASE. FINALLY A WEEK
BEFORE MY 18TH BIRTHDAY THEY DECIDED TO DO A SONOGRAM. THEY COULDNT EVEN SEE
MY OVARIES BECAUSE THEY WERE SO MASSED UP.I WENT IN FOR EMERGENCY SURGERY
AND THEY LASERED EVERYTHING OUT BY A LAPROTOMY.2 YEARS LATER THE SAME THING.
FINALLY 6 WEEKS AGO THEY DECIDED TO TAKE THE LEFT SIDE OUT.SO I IMAGINE WITH
MY HISTORY ITS JUST A MATTER OF TIME BEFORE IM IN UTTER PAIN WITH MY
RIGHTSIDE? WILL THIS EVER END? AMY
-----Original Message-----
From: Emily M Hecht [mailto:anonymous@obgyn.net
Sent: Friday, December 01, 2000 11:18 AM
To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO
Subject: Re: Sex Chat
Why do you think that is? About the docs? Do you think they don't think
it's endo because they can't cure it? I went from Dr. to Dr. to Dr. before
anyone even mentioned endo. And even then because of my age they didn't
think that is what is was, but wanted to go in and look. And WHAT DO YOU
KNOW. I was covered with it. It had adhered my uterus to my stomach wall
etc..... Why are doc's so quick to rule it out? I agree w/ you on that
one.
Emily
>----- Original Message -----
From: Amy <anonymous@obgyn.net>
To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <anonymous@obgyn.net>
Sent: Friday, December 01, 2000 12:59 PM
Subject: Re: Sex Chat
> YOUR LUCKY THAT YOU HAVENT HAD TO EXPERIENCE DIFFICULT SEX, IT CAN BE VERY
> UNCOMFTORABLE DURING OR AFTER. ISNT WILD HOW ALL DOCS ARE SO QUICK TO RULE
> OUT ENDO?
>
> -----Original Message-----
> From: misty.goodwin@natdistco.com [mailto:misty.goodwin@natdistco.com]
> Sent: Friday, December 01, 2000 10:55 AM
> To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO
> Subject: Re: Sex Chat
>
> I've had endo for two years. I had a laporoscpy , now they are trying
> Lupron. I am a minority when it comes to the sex. As severe as my endo
> has become, I've never really experienced painful sex. Maybe pressure,
> but never pain. For that reason alone, my doctor always ruled out endo.
> After finally doing the lap, he found much endo...so it goes to show not
> every symptom will appear, regardless of how prevalent it may be. At
> Fri, 1 Dec 2000, Amy Hustead wrote:
> >
> >WELL IN REGUADS TO SEX, YES ITS PAINFUL BUT I DISAGREE WITH EMILY. I'VE
> BEEN
> >MARRIED 5 YEARS AND HAVE A 2 YR OLD BOY. YOU DONT HAVE TO SAY GOODBYE TO
> >SEX. MY SEX LIFE IS GREAT.MY HUSBAND MAKES SURE HE ISNT HURTING ME AND IF
> HE
> >DOES THERES PLENTY OF OTHER WAYS THAT HE PLEASES ME.IF YOU HAVE A GOOD
> >UNDERSTANDING MAN THERE SHOULDNT BE A PROBLEM.AND THERE ARE A TON OF
> >DIFFERENT POSITIONS, DIFFERENT LUBRICATES,AND THERE IS ALWAYS ORAL
> PLEASURE.
> >HOWEVER YOU DECIDE , SEX CAN BE GOOD AGAIN.KEEP IN MIND I WAS DIAGNOSED
> WITH
> >ENDO WHEN I WAS 18 AND I'VE HAD 3 LAPROTOMYS AND REMOVAL OF MY LEFT OVARY
> >AND LEFT TUBE.SO I DO UNDERSTAND THE PAIN BUT I WILL NEVER LET THIS
DISEASE
> >RUIN MY SEX LIFE.
> >AMY HUSTEAD
> >
> >-----Original Message-----
> >From: Emily M Hecht [mailto:Emily4@mindspring.com]
> >Sent: Friday, December 01, 2000 7:48 AM
> >To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO
> >Subject: Re: Sex Chat
> >
> >Sally,
> >
> >I've only been with the forum for 2 months but I think after reading
posts,
> >that positions, and afterward feelings might be a couple of topics to
> >discuss. Sex is not something that we can totally say goodbye to.
> >Especially those of us with husbands, or boyfriends. I would say that 8
> out
> >of 10 times I am doing it for my hubby, not myself (which is sad, and
would
> >probably be different if I didn't hurt) I think it is a great idea to
have
> >a chat about this issue, because it is such a big one with people. As
for
> >the date and time evening (central time) or Sundays would be good for me,
> My
> >hubby works, and w/2 little ones it is hard to stay online when I get to
> get
> >on. Just my opinions here. Lots of love.
> >
> >Pain Free Wishes,
> >
> >Emily
>> >----- Original Message -----
> >From: NSMITCH <nsmitch@usa.com>
> >To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@mail.medispecialty.com>
> >Sent: Thursday, November 30, 2000 8:20 PM
> >Subject: Re: Sex Chat
> >
> >> Seems we have some takers, so when would everyone like to meet and what
> >are
> >> the hot topics that people want to cover? I'm hoping this can be a
candid
> >> and confidential talk so that everyone can feel at ease to say and feel
> >> whatever they are going through..a time of real sharing about a very
> >> difficult subject to speak of at any time.
> >> Thanks for the feedback, Sally
>> >> ----- Original Message -----
> >> From: "Emily" <Emily4@mindspring.com>
> >> To: "Multiple recipients of list ENDO" <endo@forum.obgyn.net>
> >> Sent: Thursday, November 30, 2000 5:48 PM
> >> Subject: Re: Sex Chat
> >>
> >> I'd be glad to join the chat.
>> >> ----- Original Message -----
> >> From: NSMITCH <nsmitch@usa.com>
> >> To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@mail.medispecialty.com>
> >> Sent: Thursday, November 30, 2000 4:18 PM
> >> Subject: Sex Chat
> >>
> >> > Any takers on my idea of a chat about the taboo subject of painful
> >> intimacy,
> >> > et al? It was in the "Dryness to ALL" post.....Just wondering....
> >> > Sally
> >> >
> >>
>
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