Re: Sex Chat
From: Amy (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Fri Dec 1 11:58:19 2000
YOUR LUCKY THAT YOU HAVENT HAD TO EXPERIENCE DIFFICULT SEX, IT CAN BE VERY
UNCOMFTORABLE DURING OR AFTER. ISNT WILD HOW ALL DOCS ARE SO QUICK TO RULE
OUT ENDO?
-----Original Message-----
From: anonymous@obgyn.net [mailto:anonymous@obgyn.net
Sent: Friday, December 01, 2000 10:55 AM
To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO
Subject: Re: Sex Chat
I've had endo for two years. I had a laporoscpy , now they are trying
Lupron. I am a minority when it comes to the sex. As severe as my endo
has become, I've never really experienced painful sex. Maybe pressure,
but never pain. For that reason alone, my doctor always ruled out endo.
After finally doing the lap, he found much endo...so it goes to show not
every symptom will appear, regardless of how prevalent it may be. At
Fri, 1 Dec 2000, Amy Hustead wrote:
>
>WELL IN REGUADS TO SEX, YES ITS PAINFUL BUT I DISAGREE WITH EMILY. I'VE
BEEN
>MARRIED 5 YEARS AND HAVE A 2 YR OLD BOY. YOU DONT HAVE TO SAY GOODBYE TO
>SEX. MY SEX LIFE IS GREAT.MY HUSBAND MAKES SURE HE ISNT HURTING ME AND IF
HE
>DOES THERES PLENTY OF OTHER WAYS THAT HE PLEASES ME.IF YOU HAVE A GOOD
>UNDERSTANDING MAN THERE SHOULDNT BE A PROBLEM.AND THERE ARE A TON OF
>DIFFERENT POSITIONS, DIFFERENT LUBRICATES,AND THERE IS ALWAYS ORAL
PLEASURE.
>HOWEVER YOU DECIDE , SEX CAN BE GOOD AGAIN.KEEP IN MIND I WAS DIAGNOSED
WITH
>ENDO WHEN I WAS 18 AND I'VE HAD 3 LAPROTOMYS AND REMOVAL OF MY LEFT OVARY
>AND LEFT TUBE.SO I DO UNDERSTAND THE PAIN BUT I WILL NEVER LET THIS DISEASE
>RUIN MY SEX LIFE.
>AMY HUSTEAD
>
>-----Original Message-----
>From: Emily M Hecht [mailto:anonymous@obgyn.net
>Sent: Friday, December 01, 2000 7:48 AM
>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO
>Subject: Re: Sex Chat
>
>Sally,
>
>I've only been with the forum for 2 months but I think after reading posts,
>that positions, and afterward feelings might be a couple of topics to
>discuss. Sex is not something that we can totally say goodbye to.
>Especially those of us with husbands, or boyfriends. I would say that 8
out
>of 10 times I am doing it for my hubby, not myself (which is sad, and would
>probably be different if I didn't hurt) I think it is a great idea to have
>a chat about this issue, because it is such a big one with people. As for
>the date and time evening (central time) or Sundays would be good for me,
My
>hubby works, and w/2 little ones it is hard to stay online when I get to
get
>on. Just my opinions here. Lots of love.
>
>Pain Free Wishes,
>
>Emily
>>----- Original Message -----
>From: NSMITCH <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>Sent: Thursday, November 30, 2000 8:20 PM
>Subject: Re: Sex Chat
>
>> Seems we have some takers, so when would everyone like to meet and what
>are
>> the hot topics that people want to cover? I'm hoping this can be a candid
>> and confidential talk so that everyone can feel at ease to say and feel
>> whatever they are going through..a time of real sharing about a very
>> difficult subject to speak of at any time.
>> Thanks for the feedback, Sally
>>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: "Emily" <Emily4@mindspring.com>
>> To: "Multiple recipients of list ENDO" <endo@forum.obgyn.net>
>> Sent: Thursday, November 30, 2000 5:48 PM
>> Subject: Re: Sex Chat
>>
>> I'd be glad to join the chat.
>>> ----- Original Message -----
>> From: NSMITCH <nsmitch@usa.com>
>> To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@mail.medispecialty.com>
>> Sent: Thursday, November 30, 2000 4:18 PM
>> Subject: Sex Chat
>>
>> > Any takers on my idea of a chat about the taboo subject of painful
>> intimacy,
>> > et al? It was in the "Dryness to ALL" post.....Just wondering....
>> > Sally
>> >
>>
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