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Re: feeling betrayed

From: Deb (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue Oct 31 12:13:03 2000


Beth,

What is your husband's picture?? I know you said he didn't want to adopt but what is his view exactly? Do you know for sure that you can't have natural children? I was told by several doctors when I was suffering from the endo that I wouldn't have children because women with endo don't. I have two beautiful daughters and I am trying to get my body in shape from the hyperplasia in order to have another. Explore ALL your options. I do believe your husband could have told you when he changed his mind about kids but then again I don't too many men who are very communicative about those things....i do however acknowledge that they are out there somewhere!!! Sit and talk with him about how you feel. debbie --- beth <anonymous@obgyn.net> wrote: > Hi everyone! When i first joined i mentioned a
> little bit about my
> husband.Yes he is supportive,but there are days when
> he dosnt try too
> hard.Maybe in part because i shield him from the
> truth.I have a hurt
> that i have to get off my chest.When we meet 7 yrs
> ago i told him that i
> had this disease and that i might not be able to
> have children and that
> if he wanted biological kids i was not the woman for
> him.I told him that
> i saw myself adopting.He agreed.We were married 2
> yrs ago i said lets go
> ahead and put the plans in motion for adoption."i do
> not want to
> adopt"he said.The knife in my back is deep.I have
> always felt that there
> are so many children in this world that need love.Oh
> well i just needed
> to share this with someone and maybe his picture is
> our true path??
>
> --
> bethtony@pris.bc.ca
>

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