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Re: (((Marlene)))
From: Angela (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Tue Oct 31 06:25:00 2000
Hello
Marlene thank you so much the support. I am just so upset, I read your poem,
and that is how I feel (silent cries). Marlene I am sorry you had to go
through so much. I have been giving my husband the silent treatment since
yesterday evening. Marlene, I just want him to understand, you know. Here I
am last night sound asleep, until I was woken up by him trying to make love
to me!!! I am in to much pain sometimes to make love. I feel like he doesnt
care, even though he tells me that he loves me, and that he cares. Sometimes
I just need a shoulder to cry on, and I feel that if I am crying on his then
he may think that I am just looking for sympathy, But all I am looking for
is support.Marlene I am very thankful that there are people as sweet and
caring like you out in this world. thanks. warm wishes, angie
>From: anonymous@obgyn.net (Marlene)
>Reply-To: anonymous@obgyn.net
>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>Subject: (((Angie)))
>Date: Mon, 30 Oct 2000 19:22:01 -0600
>
>Hi Angie:
>
>Sorry to hear that your husband isn't being supportive with you right
>now.....this disease affects not only us but the people around us that
>love us. Unfortunately as much as our loved ones want to be
>understanding...they truley don't know what we go through....
>
>I don't know how long you have had endo but I am wondering if he has
>read anything about it....there are some informative sites and a lot of
>personal pages that include other women's stories. Perhaps if he read
>some of these stories it would broaden his understanding and realize how
>hard it is for endo suffers, aside from the pain we deal with....the
>loss of the quality of our lives, the inability to do what we use to do
>or want to do.
>
>Belle's video can be quite helpful too.....after viewing it he will see
>the other women being interviewed probably say the same things you have
>said to him....Know that is what happened in my case.
>
>If you would like you can let him read "my story"....I don't know if it
>will help..but it just might....to know that other women are
>experiencing the same thing. When I was first diagnosed....only in June
>of this year I showed my husband many personal stories I had found on
>the net.
>
>http://homepages.go.com/~marsbar37/endostory.html
>
>Big warm hugss to you and know your not alone!!!
>
>Marlene
>
>At Mon, 30 Oct 2000, Angela wrote:
> >
> >Hello,
> >I really need to vent right NOW!!! I really just need a really good cry.
>I
> >am so upset with my husband right now.
> >Well I went to my Dr. appt. today! The doctor wants me to continue taking
> >the bcp's for 2 more months so Dec. 7th and am going to see her and she
>is
> >going to decide whether to do another lap or not. Anyway I told my
>husband
> >that and he said its hard for him to take time off so we will NEED to
> >schedule it according to when he can take time off. Also 10 min. ago I
> >talked to him and he wanted to go running with me tonight and I said I
>dont
> >know whether I am running tonight because I am not feeling well today (
> >nothing new ) and he says he doesnt have time for this. My husband does
>not
> >know what I am going through and it really pisses me off. Its not a
>*&&&*&&
> >joke I need this DAMN surgery. I am sick of being tossed around by the
> >doctor, oh take this pill, no take this pill oh if that dont work take
>this
> >pill, and it that doesnt work keep a damn log!!!! Shit!!! I dont have
>time
> >for this I have a 7 1/2 month old that I like her to be happy 24 hours a
> >day!!! I can't be sick anymore. And I will not schedule the operation
>around
> >my husbands time, my parents will have to take care of my daughter. My
> >husband doesnt want to believe that I have a disease. He is being very
> >selfish. Who cares how I am feeling as long as he is happy, thats all
>that
> >really matters. angie
>
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