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Re: (((Angie)))From: Deborah (anonymous@obgyn.net)Mon Oct 30 21:12:47 2000
At Mon, 30 Oct 2000, Marlene wrote: > >Hi Angie: > >Sorry to hear that your husband isn't being supportive with you right >now.....this disease affects not only us but the people around us that >love us. Unfortunately as much as our loved ones want to be >understanding...they truley don't know what we go through.... > >I don't know how long you have had endo but I am wondering if he has >read anything about it....there are some informative sites and a lot of >personal pages that include other women's stories. Perhaps if he read >some of these stories it would broaden his understanding and realize how >hard it is for endo suffers, aside from the pain we deal with....the >loss of the quality of our lives, the inability to do what we use to do >or want to do. > >Belle's video can be quite helpful too.....after viewing it he will see >the other women being interviewed probably say the same things you have >said to him....Know that is what happened in my case. > >If you would like you can let him read "my story"....I don't know if it >will help..but it just might....to know that other women are >experiencing the same thing. When I was first diagnosed....only in June >of this year I showed my husband many personal stories I had found on >the net. > >http://homepages.go.com/~marsbar37/endostory.html > >Big warm hugss to you and know your not alone!!! > >-- >Marlene > >At Mon, 30 Oct 2000, Angela wrote: >> >>Hello, >>I really need to vent right NOW!!! I really just need a really good cry. I >>am so upset with my husband right now. >>Well I went to my Dr. appt. today! The doctor wants me to continue taking >>the bcp's for 2 more months so Dec. 7th and am going to see her and she is >>going to decide whether to do another lap or not. Anyway I told my husband >>that and he said its hard for him to take time off so we will NEED to >>schedule it according to when he can take time off. Also 10 min. ago I >>talked to him and he wanted to go running with me tonight and I said I dont >>know whether I am running tonight because I am not feeling well today ( >>nothing new ) and he says he doesnt have time for this. My husband does not >>know what I am going through and it really pisses me off. Its not a *&&&*&& >>joke I need this DAMN surgery. I am sick of being tossed around by the >>doctor, oh take this pill, no take this pill oh if that dont work take this >>pill, and it that doesnt work keep a damn log!!!! Shit!!! I dont have time >>for this I have a 7 1/2 month old that I like her to be happy 24 hours a >>day!!! I can't be sick anymore. And I will not schedule the operation around >>my husbands time, my parents will have to take care of my daughter. My >>husband doesnt want to believe that I have a disease. He is being very >>selfish. Who cares how I am feeling as long as he is happy, thats all that >>really matters. angie >
-- DEBBIE HENZE
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