ENDO Messages for October, 2000: Re: (no subject)

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From: anonymous (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon Oct 30 20:45:04 2000

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Dear Angela, I no longer vent against men. I have given that up. I am sorry to have made the decision to remove myself from men. As long as I have constant pelvic pain I have no interest in dating. I divorced, I got tired of being put down, ignored, etc., even if my husband is a wonderful person. He just kept asking me for a date (day month year) in which I would be well from then on. I could not provide such information. This went on for several years. Although I left, it is more as if I was pushed out. We are still great friends; I no longer have the pressure of having to be a wife. Yes, it is risky to suddenly be on my own, but the freedom I feel (no more pressure) is invaluable. I don't recommend divorce, bu I wanted to share why I did it. By the way, I nearly remarried. When my boyfriend (seriously interested in me) heard the news that I needed surgery he disappeared and months later he told he me left me because he had no interest in getting married to someone not healthy, to someone not available one to three times a day for, say, fun. It was fun while it lasted, but indeed, my pelvic pain worsened fast, day by day, so although I cried deeply for three months and still miss that new life I almost started, I felt again, as before, that I am physically a lot better without the aggravation of sex. I still like men, don't misunderstand me. It just that they are associated with physical pain, a good deterrent. Oh well.

At Mon, 30 Oct 2000, Angela wrote: >
>Hello,
>I really need to vent right NOW!!! I really just need a really good cry. I
>am so upset with my husband right now.
>Well I went to my Dr. appt. today! The doctor wants me to continue taking
>the bcp's for 2 more months so Dec. 7th and am going to see her and she is
>going to decide whether to do another lap or not. Anyway I told my husband
>that and he said its hard for him to take time off so we will NEED to
>schedule it according to when he can take time off. Also 10 min. ago I
>talked to him and he wanted to go running with me tonight and I said I dont
>know whether I am running tonight because I am not feeling well today (
>nothing new ) and he says he doesnt have time for this. My husband does not
>know what I am going through and it really pisses me off. Its not a *&&&*&&
>joke I need this DAMN surgery. I am sick of being tossed around by the
>doctor, oh take this pill, no take this pill oh if that dont work take this
>pill, and it that doesnt work keep a damn log!!!! Shit!!! I dont have time
>for this I have a 7 1/2 month old that I like her to be happy 24 hours a
>day!!! I can't be sick anymore. And I will not schedule the operation around
>my husbands time, my parents will have to take care of my daughter. My
>husband doesnt want to believe that I have a disease. He is being very
>selfish. Who cares how I am feeling as long as he is happy, thats all that
>really matters. angie

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