ENDO Messages for October, 2000: (((Angie)))

(((Angie)))

From: Marlene (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon Oct 30 18:20:42 2000

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Hi Angie:

Sorry to hear that your husband isn't being supportive with you right now.....this disease affects not only us but the people around us that love us. Unfortunately as much as our loved ones want to be understanding...they truley don't know what we go through....

I don't know how long you have had endo but I am wondering if he has read anything about it....there are some informative sites and a lot of personal pages that include other women's stories. Perhaps if he read some of these stories it would broaden his understanding and realize how hard it is for endo suffers, aside from the pain we deal with....the loss of the quality of our lives, the inability to do what we use to do or want to do.

Belle's video can be quite helpful too.....after viewing it he will see the other women being interviewed probably say the same things you have said to him....Know that is what happened in my case.

If you would like you can let him read "my story"....I don't know if it will help..but it just might....to know that other women are experiencing the same thing. When I was first diagnosed....only in June of this year I showed my husband many personal stories I had found on the net.

http://homepages.go.com/~marsbar37/endostory.html

Big warm hugss to you and know your not alone!!!

-- Marlene

At Mon, 30 Oct 2000, Angela wrote: > >Hello, >I really need to vent right NOW!!! I really just need a really good cry. I >am so upset with my husband right now. >Well I went to my Dr. appt. today! The doctor wants me to continue taking >the bcp's for 2 more months so Dec. 7th and am going to see her and she is >going to decide whether to do another lap or not. Anyway I told my husband >that and he said its hard for him to take time off so we will NEED to >schedule it according to when he can take time off. Also 10 min. ago I >talked to him and he wanted to go running with me tonight and I said I dont >know whether I am running tonight because I am not feeling well today ( >nothing new ) and he says he doesnt have time for this. My husband does not >know what I am going through and it really pisses me off. Its not a *&&&*&& >joke I need this DAMN surgery. I am sick of being tossed around by the >doctor, oh take this pill, no take this pill oh if that dont work take this >pill, and it that doesnt work keep a damn log!!!! Shit!!! I dont have time >for this I have a 7 1/2 month old that I like her to be happy 24 hours a >day!!! I can't be sick anymore. And I will not schedule the operation around >my husbands time, my parents will have to take care of my daughter. My >husband doesnt want to believe that I have a disease. He is being very >selfish. Who cares how I am feeling as long as he is happy, thats all that >really matters. angie

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