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Re: Joan, from Jan,m not doing good....
From: joan (anonymous@obgyn.net)
Mon Jan 31 17:09:06 2000
Jan,
I do understand, I'm the same way with my hubby too. I don't always want to
do it either, and he's learning to take it in stride, but, I love him so
much, that I do anyway. I just get up and take my pain meds after...LOL...
What else can we do? Right? There's nothing worse than bleeding like that
either. That's the one good thing from the lupron though, I shouldn't start
bleeding again for a while. I've got enough going on without that garbage
too... LOL... You know what I mean. I hope you stop soon, and have atleast a
few good days. Hope you feel better. Get all of the rest you need. I'm sure
trying, but these crazy kids of mine, keep me on my toes!! Even when I feel
like being on my back...LOL... I try hard to keep it together for them. I
can't stand them seeing Mommy sick all the time. So, I try to fall apart at
nap time, and after they go to bed. We all do what we have to. You take
care. Lots of hugs, and warm wishes. Joan
>From: "JANET" <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>Reply-To: anonymous@obgyn.net
>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>Subject: Re: Joan, from Jan,m not doing good....
>Date: Mon, 31 Jan 2000 17:56:55 -0600
>
>Joan,
> Hi hon.. I know what you mean about being laid up for days.. Most
>weekends, i'm stuck in bed most of the weekend, which is NO LIFE.. I hope
>my
>kids can still love and forgive me, i'm a good mom, most days,lol, but
>sometimes, i just cannot take alot, and i go bananas..lol.. I know i'm
>responding late, like a week late, but i was in bed alot this weekend, but
>not as bad as usual.. I've been bleeding for a month, with the cramps from
>hell, but i've had sex inspite of it.. I can't lose my love... it would
>kill
>me if i did.. and i know he does'nt really care about the sex, like i
>think,
>but it does hurt when i can't, i know that much.. or at least hw does'nt
>like not being able to..
> Anyway, i hope your doing okay.. I go and talk to my doc in a week,
>and
>see what he says this time.. I love my doc, spo i hope he gives me the
>right
>answers..lol.. My hubby does'nt want me to stay on the forum, he say's it's
>giving me TOO much stress, which he says i don't need the xtra.. (you
>probably don't know what i'm talking about?) I just don't know..... Lotsa
>love and big hugs....... Jan
>-----Original Message-----
>From: joan <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <anonymous@obgyn.net>
>Date: Monday, January 24, 2000 7:19 PM
>Subject: Re: I'm not doing good....
>
> >Hey Jan,
> >I know exactly how you're feeling today. I woke up this morning with the
> >world's worst migrane!!! Along with the cramps, and nausea, I just wanted
>to
> >die!!! I read your post, and boy do I agree with you. I've had all the
>kids
> >I'm gonna have too. I finally gave in and made the appointment to see my
>doc
> >on friday, to discuss hysterectomy. I just can't take it anymore!!!! I
>have
> >2 little one's to take care of. I can not be laid up for days at a time,
> >completely unable to move when I have things to do. I feel like I'm
> >neglecting them because I feel so horrible. It took me all day to get the
> >pain to a level where I could tollerate it. All I've had to eat all day
>is
>a
> >peanut butter and jelly sandwich, because even though I'm hungry, I get
> >nauseous when I try to eat. Not exactly the way I wanted to lose weight,
>but
> >not a bad side effect...LOL... My doctor "accidentally" gave me the men's
> >chemotherapy dose of Lupron, instead of the usual 3 month 11.25mg dose,
>he
> >gave me the 22.5mg dose. And now he can't figure out why I'm having such
> >horrible headaches all the time... DUH!!!! It's called HYPOESTROGENISM!
>What
> >an idiot!! Sorry, I get crabby when I don't feel good. If anyone has ANY
> >words of encouragement, I'll take it! This really sucks! Hope I didn't
>bring
> >you down any lower than you already were. Once I got started I couldn't
> >stop. Feels good to get it out though. Thanks for putting up with me.
>Joan
> >
> >>From: "JANET" <mattjan@iserv.net>
> >>Reply-To: endo@obgyn.net
> >>To: Multiple recipients of list ENDO <endo@forum.obgyn.net>
> >>Subject: I'm not doing good....
> >>Date: Mon, 24 Jan 2000 15:50:07 -0600
> >>
> >>Hello girls..
> >> How's everyone doing? Please put me out of my misery... not doing
>good
> >>at all.. I've been in bed most of the weekend. my pain has increased
>200%..
> >>I'm going to end up dissapointing some, but i am definately going to go
>in
> >>and talk about getting my hyst.. I've had 4 great kids, and i cannot
>have
> >>anymore, cause i have my tubes tied, and i don't want to go thru that
>kind
> >>of pain again, being pregnant.. I do kinda wish i could, but it would be
> >>terrible again..
> >> i feel sooo helpless.... i've done state of the art treatments,
>things
> >>that most doc's don't even tell their patients about, and i'm still
>sitting
> >>here in great pain.. I'm at my wits end, and do not know what to do
> >>anymore... i hate to have another surgery, cause that would be 3 in a
>year,
> >>and that's not good.. and my section scar, is killing me soooo bad, i'm
>not
> >>sure what that's all about.. why would that hurt? i'm just so lost, and
> >>don't know what to do anymore.. i'm afraid i might end up losing my
>husband
> >>and kids, because i just cannot do things they want, i feel like an
>invaled
> >>(SP).. I feel so disabled, i need a new body.lol..
> >> well, i think i'm done venting, and whining, on to read around 1000 or
> >>more messages, and give you guys the best i got.. but don't expect too
>much
> >>from me today... you guys are the only ones that know just what the hell
> >>i'm going thru... jan
> >
>
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