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Re: A caution to my good friends...From: anonymous@obgyn.netTue Jan 18 22:33:32 2000
>>: Undisclosed-Recipient:; <Undisclosed-Recipient:;> >>Date: Tuesday, 11 May 1999 11:18 >>Subject: A caution to my good friends... >> >>This was forwarded to me by a Very Good Friend Please read it carefully... >> >>The following individual asked not to be identified, but she asked me to >>forward this to anyone who does not bcc online... and to spread the word. >>Please read this; it is not a joke, not an internet hoax, and not something >>someone made up to get attention! This person is a member of an on-line >>group that I belong to. Please pass this on after you have read it, and >>please make sure you cut n paste this info before you forward it. This is >a >>valuable lesson in using the BCC feature. >> >> Late one evening, while online, I received an IM from a gentleman who >>said he knew me through mutual pals online. We chatted for an hour or so >>before deciding to keep in touch, as we had so many things in common. I >>eventually, after a week or so of knowing him, trusted him with my name >>(first name) and phone number; after all, he knew my friends and I felt he >>must have been ok if they all liked and knew him. He knew a lot about >them, >>he knew a lot about me, he knew a lot about a lot! He seemed like such a >>nice person, a pleasant person, and someone whom I felt very comfortable >>sharing my time online (and on the phone) with. >> Most of the friends I had made on AOL knew me and I knew them, so I >>felt quite safe with anyone whom they associated with. We all talked on a >>regular basis, though we seldom went into chat rooms. One night, a friend >>from our group of friends invited me to a chat room where several of the >>friends had gathered and were chatting (it was an open chat in the members >>category, romance) and we were all chatting when this gentleman popped into >>the chat room. He popped in and then left quickly. He then blocked his >>buddy list and sent me an IM. >> I instantly became curoius as to why he was acting so suspicious. >>Then, for the first time since I met and started chatting with him, I >>mentioned him to one of the friends who were in the chat room.. one whom >>this >>gentleman claimed assocation with. She was in total awe, she did not know >>who he was! However, she had experienced the same thing as I had. Only >>difference was, the guy who sent her an IM claimed to have known her from a >>former friend online. Things were beginning to look really suspicious. The >>more she and I chatted, the more suspicious it became. >>It also became apparent that this guy knew none of us. >> Suddenly, he dissapeared offline for a few days... then one day he >>pops back in and sends me an IM saying that we need to talk. He called me >>at >>my home and I was very upset, so I asked him how he really found me and why >>he had felt the need to lie in the first place. This is where you all need >>to pay attention: He told me that he spotted my screenname on a forward >>that >>one of my friends sent to someone else. My screenname is what attracted >>him. >>He then used the screenname of others on the list of forwards to acquaint >>himself with me and various others from our clique of friends. He also >used >>the member directory to look up info about others on the list of forwards, >>so >>not to look suspicious. He said he felt it was the only way he would have >>the chance to get to know me, and the main attraction to me was "My >>Screenname" because he thought it was "sexy!" >> I was upset, needless to say, as I had trusted this man with my >>personal info... such as phone number and name. He also knew where I lived >>(thanks to the phone bill) and I was now his prey! A few days after having >>last talked to this person and thinking that was the last of him, I >received >>a phone call at 4:am, it was this man telling me he was in town to see a >>friend who lived 20 minutes from my house, and wanted to know if I would >>like >>to meet him for coffee or breakfast. When I told him it was not such a >good >>idea, he became irate and hung up on me. I immediately called him back >>(caller ID) and explained to him that my husband was back home (trying to >>scare him) and to please not be so mad (in fear of him and what he might >>do). >>His whole demeanor changed and a different person was on the other end of >>that phone..not the man whom I had talked to online so many times (and >>seemed >>so sweet and caring). He was very uneasy and angry towards me. >> Telling him that my husband had returned and we were reconciling was >>a lie, and I told him this to make him think I was not alone! Imagine the >>feeling I felt in the pit of my stomach when he came back with the >following >>response: "You're a lying bitch, your husband is not there with you...you >>are alone!" I hung up on him and immediately called the Broward County >>Sheriff's office and told them what had happened. They sent an officer >over >>to take a report and said that was really all they could do for me at that >>time. So, I packed a few belongings into my car, while the deputies waited >>and drove to my sister's home for the night. I was in shock! >> Fifteen or twenty minutes after I arrived at her home, I received a >>phone call from this man again! He knew I called the Sheriff and reported >>him, he knew where I was and he knew my sister and her husband's names! >>People, let me tell you some-thing, this man had been stalking me for weeks >>and I had no idea.!! I walked, ate, slept and breathed in constant fear >>until he was finally arrested for stalking! Not for stalking me! Nope! >>For >>stalking another lady who lived in Kendall, FL. This is what I was >informed >>of when I was contacted by Kendall Florida detectives (who was contacted by >>Broward County) when it was discovered he was facing other various charges. >>Meanwhile, I went on and filed charges against him in Broward County. >> I wanted to share this with you all. And yes, it is all true. >>Friends, when you forward things and you leave your friends names out in >>plain view like that, you are putting THEM and YOURSELF in what could be >>grave danger. I hope I have gotten this message across; as I have not even >>begun to mention his assault (rape, using deadly force) charges the >>detectives from Broward County and Kendall, FL uncovered on him while >>investigating his prior history! Yes, he had been charged with raping a >>Tifton, Ga lady whom he had met online also, and using the same technique >he >>used on me and my friend, he stalked her for weeks before finally getting >up >>the nerve to break in to her home (as she slept) and rape and beat her! He >>was out on bond and his trial was pending all the while when he was online >>and still trying to do the same thing to more women! People, please!!! Be >>safe, be careful and BCC!!!! This is NOT a joke and NOT a hoax!!! >>********************************** >>May be passed to your lists >>
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